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Report created by: Angie
Date: 09/02/2007 at 10:39 a.m.
Subject: Sunday, September 2, 2007
Karen is in her new room in the Rehab area of the hospital. She has quite a luxurious suite, by Hospital standards!
The last few nights have been tough. She is trying to take less of the morphine for pain, but her rehab is working her so hard and she is pushing herself so much, that she has a tremedous amount of pain at night.
After the holiday weekend, she will have 3 one hour sessions of rehab each day. She will have both Physical Therapy (PT) and Occupational Therapy (OT). She is very anxious to be self-sufficient, be knows she needs to take it slow in order to be able to manage the pain. |
Report created by: Angie
Date: 09/03/2007 at 5:51 p.m.
Subject: Monday, September 3, 2007
Karen had a better night last night. She opted to take a sleeping pill and continue the morphine to help control the pain. She says the pain is worse at night. When they ask her to rate her pain, she gives the pain in her left leg a 10 all the time. She said she has to stop and focus because she knows that is phantom pain and that she doesn't physically have that pain. They control the phantom pain with a drug that is used for seizures, since it deals with the nerves.
She had one hour of OT and one hour of PT today and she is continuing to do her exercises.
She had a short visit with Jim today and he continues to respond to her even when he is heavily medicated.
Her therapy will become more intense starting Tuesday since all the staff will be back after the holiday weekend.
Your continued prayers are appreciated and felt each day.
Thank you so much for the messages. I will call and read them to Karen each day until she can get access to the internet. Each one is precious to all of us and your support is greatly appreciated. |
Report created by: Angie
Date: 09/04/2007 at 4:39 p.m.
Subject: Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Karen had intensive Physical Therapy and Occuaptional Therapy today. She assures me she will look fantastic in a strapless gown for our wedding next summer! They are really working her upper body and arms so that she will be able to support herself. She will certainly feel that tomorrow, but she continues to be a trooper and is keeping a very positive attitude surrounding her recovery.
Thanks for the messages, and please continue to send them. |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 09/05/2007 at 3:39 p.m.
Subject: Wed. Sept. 5, 2007
Karen had a good day. She made brownies in Occupational Therapy. We had them for dessert at lunch. Her sisters and mom came down and brought us a picnic lunch today. Her Recreational Therapy today was going down to the gift shop and "window shopping". She had to wheel herself around in her wheel chair. The tough part was getting used to being in public. She kept up the weight training and exercises in Physical Therapy. We visited Dad so she had extra exercise with wheeling down there and standing with him.
She came down to the patient library with me and we were able to read all the wonderful messages. Thanks for thinking of us! We'll be keeping up with them.
Christine and Karen |
Report created by: Angie
Date: 09/07/2007 at 06:24 a.m.
Subject: Friday, September 7, 2007
Brad and I are going back to Dayton today to move Karen into her new apartment. She has a 2 BR/2 Bath ground level apartment in Huber Heights, a northeast suburb of Dayton. Shouldn't be too tough to navigate back & forth to the hospital. Karen is really apprehensive about leaving Jim and the hospital. We are confident that she will get along well as she joins the real world again. We have no doubt she will function normally again, there isn't much she won't try! She is scared, but how can you blame her? I'm not sure if she will want to go grocery shopping or if she will want us to do that for her, but there will be a lot to do to get her place ready today.
When we get an updated address and phone number for her, I will add it here so everyone can jot it down. We are taking her a computer today so she will be able to read all of your messages daily.
We as a family, ask that if you are able, please donate to the blood drive on Monday from 10-4 at Fairview Missionary Church. To schedule an apppointment, call 1-800-givelife. It will help someone else in the future who is struggling like we were. |
Report created by: Angie
Date: 09/09/2007 at 08:57 a.m.
Subject: Saturday, September 8, 2007
Karen is all moved in to her new apartment. She has a great little place that she can zip around in from her wheelchair. She has a tough discharge late Friday night, but everything worked out fine. Her pain seems to be manageable now, she is only pain medication every 6 hours and still takes the Lyrica for her phantom pain 3x/day. Most of her pain is coming from the phantom leg and the ribs/sternum. Now that she uses her upper body so much for her maneuvering around, she is aggrevating those injuries from the accidents. I think she is going to start trying to incorporate some advil into her pill regimen when she has those aches & pains in her upper body.
Karen's new address is 4083 Cloud Park Drive, Unit A2, Huber Heights, OH 45424
Her new phone number is 937-233-1240
Thanks to Mayor Dick Hickman and the City of Angola for providing us with a laptop for Karen to use until we purchase her one.
The Indiana Trooper's Association has offered to purchase a laptop for Jim & Karen and we have thankfully accepted.
Thanks to everyone for your continued support and prayers. We continue to see the fruit of those prayers everyday in the recovery process.
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Report created by: Karen
Date: 09/11/2007 at 12:21 a.m.
Subject: Sept. 11, 2007
I'm getting around well in my wheelchair. We had John the wheelchair guy adjust it today so the seat doesn't pop out. I had my first public outing yesterday--I got my hair cut. That went well. Christine takes me to the hospital in the morning to visit Jim. Then we go home for a mid-day nap and exercises, then back to the hospital in the early evening.
Thanks for all the prayers and thoughts--keep it up!
We'll update Jim's site as soon as we talk to the doctors today.
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Report created by: Karen
Date: 09/13/2007 at 11:43 a.m.
Subject: Sept 13, 2007
Yesterday we were busy waiting all day for Jim in surgery. It was a LONG day!
Still doing okay. I forgot to tell everybody that I met Peggy (the lady that stayed with me at the scene and talked to me) on Sunday. She seemed like a wonderful person and we will keep in touch with her. Her husband was the one who put the turnicate on my leg.
Tomorrow is the follow-up visit with the orthopedic doctor.
Thanks for the thoughts and prayers! |
Report created by: Amy
Date: 09/14/2007 at 7:38 p.m.
Subject: Friday Sept. 14, 2007
Well I do believe we found out truly how lucky mom is today. She had an appt. with the ortho Dr. and he had a lot of info for her. The reason her staples went all the way to her hip is that she has a metal plate (long flat plate with holes for support pins) from her hip to her knee. Her femor was completly shattered in the accident. The plate has a few pins supporting it and about 8 pins holding it at the knee. The Doctor said they seriously thought about taking her whole leg off but thought they could save it. And now seeing her and her strenghth is glad they did. (we are too) . He also said there are a few areas on the end of the stump that look like they are dying but will keep an eye on them for now and put her on an antibiotic. They might have to revise the skin so she may need another surgery but he wants to wait and see how it looks. She goes back to him on the 24th. All her staples did come out but the stiches are still in until they decide how that skin is healing. He told her to not take advil between pain meds because it is bad for bone formation. He prescribed ultam instead. He increased her dose of Lyrica which his for her phantom pain, and renewed all her other meds.
mom told the dr that the top of her knee felt numb and he said that feeling won't come back.
So I guess we were blessed before we really knew how much.
thanks for all your continued prayers and messages. |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 09/15/2007 at 6:59 p.m.
Subject: Sept. 15, 2007
The date can't be right--can't believe it has been almost 3 weeks already!
Doing okay. Just get a little stiff sitting in the wheelchair most of the day. We are trying to spend the days at the hospital with Jim. He seems to know when we are there.
I have more meds than the pharmacy now. I can't wait until some of them are gone.
I'm very thankful for Christine being able to stay with me and haul me around since I can't drive yet. (editor's note: I'm glad to be here!.)
Thank you for all the prayers and cards and e-mails and messages!! It's wonderful to know so many people are thinking and praying for us. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/16/2007 at 7:39 p.m.
Subject: sept 16
This was another long day. My sisters and mom visited today we mostly just set in the waiting area. Jim sleeps most of the time.
thanks for thinking of us |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 09/17/2007 at 7:32 p.m.
Subject: Sept. 17, 2007
Hello to everyone. I'm fine, but I'm tired! It was another long day at the hospital.
Keep praying!!!! |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/18/2007 at 6:52 p.m.
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today was a better day jim was talking to us but we had to play charades to try to understand what he is saying , then he gives me
that grin of his when i can't guess what he is saying,
I'm also trying to regulate my meds i dont like this spacey feeling (no not the same as always) Other than that I am doing pretty good
thanks for the emails and prayer |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/21/2007 at 5:34 p.m.
im doing okay some days are longer than others. It will all be easier when Jim can have a real conversation with me. He has a long road ahead of him but I know he can do it.
Christine is going home for the weekend and Brad and Angie are coming down to help. |
Report created by: Angie
Date: 09/22/2007 at 8:28 p.m.
Subject: Saturday, September 22, 2007
We had quite the outing today!!!
Brad, Karen and I took a little jaunt over to Trader Joe's - one of my favorite little markets - got a few groceries and toured the mall for a little while. We also went to dinner after we left the hospital. It was a little frustrating because we found out that not every restaraunt is handicap accessible. We tried BWW, but there were chairs in the aisles and we couldn't have got her wheelchair in and out without bumping into everything. Karen gets frustrated and so did we, after we discovered there is a big difference between handicap accessible and wheelchair accessible. We certainly look at things differently now in regards to handicap parking spaces and the such.
This was her first outing to go to dinner and going into crowed places and she did great! She also forgot to take her Percocet this afternoon and when we got home, she realized she hadn't had any since 8:00 this morning! She's doing so great managing her pain and navigating with her wheelchair. She's still so unsure of the future and how long they will be so far away and what the future will bring, but she's optimistic and really staying positive about the whole situation.
Please continue to pray for Karen to be given the strength to remain strong for her own recovery as well as Jim's. May God give her guidance she needs to make her decisions and remain strong.
Thanks, everyone!!
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Report created by: karen
Date: 09/23/2007 at 5:50 p.m.
Subject: sept 23
brad and angie just left it was good to spend some time with them. I think I wore both of them out it takes twice as long to do anything. Its hard watching Jim go from a good day to a bad day all in the same day. When we leave the room them go back in a little later he doesnt seem to remember we were in with him. we look forward to each smile he gives us or I like the roll of the eyes the best thats my old Jim.
Just keep up the prayers each one helps us. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/24/2007 at 6:30 p.m.
Subject: sept 24
Today was my Dr app. He didn't say alot its healing and he still doesnt know about a skin graft. More than likely I will need one at some point he is not saying much. have another appointment on Oct 5, Time is just getting away from us
thanks to everyone for thier thoughts and prayers |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/25/2007 at 5:31 p.m.
this morning we visited Jim at the hospital he tried to talk to us but seemed very tired.
We left around noon and my Aunt Mildred , Uncle Ray,Aunt Janet and my Mom game to the apartment and brought lunch that was a nice change and I enjoyed the chat. Thanks guys....
We did visit Jim later in the day ..That seems to be the routine
Its nice to know everyone is still praying for us. I need the strength to get through each day...... |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/26/2007 at 7:23 p.m.
Not much to tell about myself today I'm very tired today. Jim needed alot of attention today. he's very confused so he has alot of question about all the things wrong with him. so we spent from nine this morning til after 7 tonight with a very short break at 4 but he was worried when i went to the bathroon , so I need prayers for patience.
thanks |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/28/2007 at 7:11 p.m.
I was able to get away from the hospital for awhile this afternoon. I had lunch and took a nap felt likeI a real person..We went to the hospital early so we could get there before everyone started working on him , It seems to confuse him if to many people are in the room.
Going try to get to bed eary the nights seem a little long sometimes so I know how Jim feels too.
Thanks to everyone
continue the prayers |
Report created by: karen
Date: 09/30/2007 at 6:18 p.m.
Yesterday was a little rough. So today I didnt go to the hospital quite as early and tried to relax alittle. That's hard to do but at least I didnt have to rush around to get there and sit all morning. Jim Jr picked me up on his way about noon.
them my brother Todd and Kris and girls came down and brought lunch and a birthday cake I was trying to forget this birthday but they didn't think I shoud The girls wanted candles and they sang happy birthday'don't know what the people in the cafateria thought or care....it was nice to have them keep me company while Jim was with his Mother .
Jim was tired and almost asleep by six so we came home early
thanks for the thoughts and prayers |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/01/2007 at 8:24 p.m.
today wasnt to bad. Christine went home for awhile and Amy came down so thats a change...I'm not as tired as I have been it's easier if I don't have to worry as much about Jim.
Thanks for your thoughts and Prayers |
Report created by: Brad
Date: 10/01/2007 at 9:07 p.m.
Subject: Karen's Birthday
Tuesday, Oct 2nd is mom's Birthday. She is going to be mad at me for posting this.
Angie and I are taking Blake (3 yr old grandson) down to see her for the first time. Blake thinks we are just going on a road trip, and mom has no idea we are coming. She is expecting me this weekend.
We will take her all of your well-wishes and please continue to post your messages, we look forward to them every day! |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/02/2007 at 9:55 p.m.
Hi today was a specail day for me even tho Jim had a bad day. Brad and Angie brought Blake down to visit with me for my birthday, I thought it wasn't going to be a very good day but it was the best. It was Just what I needed for a change. Thanks Kids your the best,
We are counting on your prayers |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/03/2007 at 6:22 p.m.
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Blake,Amy,Brad and Angie left this aftenoon it was a real nice visit I was so glad to see Blake I hadn't seen him since before we left on vacation. Christine came back hopefully a little rested and we start all over. It is still very nice here around 80 degrees. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/04/2007 at 5:13 p.m.
AS YOU CAN PROBABLY GUESS IF YOU'VE READ JIMS UPDATE IT WAS A PRETTY CRAZY DAY. I DON'T THINK HE KNEW I WAS THERE HE ASKED THE NURSE WHERE I WAS BUT WHEN I GOT THERE HE DIDN'T SEEM TO RESPOND TO ME . HE TOLD ME NOT TO TOUCH HIM AT ONE POINT.
HOPEFULLY TOMORROW WILL BE BETTER.
I HAVE MY DR APPOINTMENT AT 10 TOMORROW SO MAYBE HE WILL GIVE ME SOME GOOD NEWS BUT MY LEG DOESNT LOOK MUCH DIFFERENT BUT GOOD NEWS OF ANY KIND WOULD BE A NICE CHANGE.
THANKS. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/05/2007 at 6:21 p.m.
I had my appointment with Dr Binski. He has scheduled surgery for my leg for debriding,which is removing the dead part so he can see how much grafting may need to be done. They think it will be an out patient surgery unless he has to go deeper than he plans. Jim and I will be having surgery together again, the dr thought that was funny, I didn't really find the humor in it.
I'm not sure which one of the kids will be with us. Christine will be in Mn with her son.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 10/06/2007 at 7:11 p.m.
it was a nice day here it is still 87 degrees at eight not bad for Oct.
Christine left at noon today and brad is here for tonight and Lana is coming on Sunday for next week.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 10/07/2007 at 9:01 p.m.
Brad took the load off me this weekend by trying to spend time with Jim. Lana came to releive brad. She will be here all week.
hopefully things will look up by the end of the week,
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Report created by: karen
Date: 10/09/2007 at 7:18 p.m.
My morning was spent calling insurance people to make sure I,m doing everything just right since Jims not able to help me yet and have to go slow.
Them my sister Lana and I went shoe shopping a girl has to have a nice pair of shoes to make her feel better. I wasn' t able to find any place that would sale me just one shoe... I'm sorry I just had to add that ..
after spending the day at the hospital we went grocery shopping so I've have quite a day..good tho
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Report created by: karen
Date: 10/10/2007 at 6:29 p.m.
well today was a pretty good day, I went to the hospital for my pre testing for my surgery about noon then we went out for lunch and decided to stop at a shoe store still looking for that certain pair of shoes since no one will sell one shoe. I did find a pair I liked and they were having a sale "buy one get one 1/2 off soooo I have to pay two pair I'm all set for awhile, Thanks Mom that was my birthday money....
Thanks for the prayers |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/11/2007 at 6:27 p.m.
Tomorrow is my surgery or so I think First it was to be at one then they scheduled Jim for one so mine was changed to 2:30 now they tell me it well be at noon.
Lana will have me at the hospital at 10:00 in the morning so we will go from there
Wish us luck |
Report created by: Lana
Date: 10/12/2007 at 11:23 p.m.
Subject: Friday oct. 12,2007
| Went to hospital at 10:00am, saw Jim before their surgeries. Karens went well but she has to stay in the hospital about three days because of the drainage tube. She is doing good just didn't plan on staying. |
Report created by: Brad
Date: 10/14/2007 at 9:35 p.m.
Subject: Sunday, Oct. 14,2007
Mom is doing great today just bored not being able to do anything. The Dr. might let her back to the apartment with a home nurse to help with the wrap and vac pump on her stump(not a riddle). otherwise she might be in the very small two bed hospital room for a few more days, no fun. She has not seen dad since friday mornig and wants to try and see him monday sometime, so hopefully they can take her down to see him.
Big thanks to Lana (mom's sister) for being with her this week and for all the food left for me to finish.
Thanks to all |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/16/2007 at 8:08 p.m.
Subject: oct 16
I finally got released from the hospital around six tonight, then we went down to see Jim. I hadn't been able to see him since Friday morning.
I had to stay in the hospital longer because I had to wait for a portable wound- vac pump. I carry it over my shoulder. When I am home I have to keep it plug in, Then it can run on a battery for up to eight hours if I want to leave the apartment.
Every three days I have a home nurse come to change the dressing on my stump not sure how long I have to do this. I see the dr again in ten to fourteen days. Then we see how its going, This will get it ready for my graft. Nothing is going to happen very fast for either one of us.
Thank You for all the cards and prayers everyone is wonderful.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 10/18/2007 at 09:45 a.m.
I am told there was nothing on here last night I thought I updated but I must not have submitted I wasn't having the best day. d home Yesterday was the first day I was alone all day but I did okay with that part.
I forgot how many trips you can make to the same spot, its not so easy in a wheel chair I'll have to start planning ahead and make a list.
I stayed home waiting on my home nurse I talked to them at 9am but they couldnt give me a time would call later. They called at 11 am said they would be here late afternoon. They came about 4:30 were here until 6:45.
This was the most painful thing I've have done yet. I wasn't prepared for what my stump looks like, it is just an open wound, Before it was stiched and I was okay. Either the Dr didn't tell me what to expect or I didn't understand him.
I dont know how long I have to have the vac pump. It pulls the opening together to make good tissue for the skin graft. It is portable so I can take it with me,but when I am home it has to be plugged in ,the first thing I did was run over the hose and got it tangled in my wheel.
Sorry I didn't get this posted last night.
Hopefully I'll have a better day.
Later |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/18/2007 at 6:29 p.m.
today wasn't to bad I rested most of the day just seem so tired, Went to see Jim around five, that way we could help with supper.
He was setting up and looked pretty good, I hadnt seen him since tuesday . He looked a little spaced out must have some good meds.
tomorrow is another day for the home nurse so pray that goes better for me. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/19/2007 at 4:11 p.m.
Its a gloomy day here but no storms....
I had My second nurse visit today, It really was better not as painful and I didnt have to look at the wound she was very nice and said to wait and see the difference another week would make.
Christine left for the weekend and Brad is here with
me.
The kids are a blessingto us.. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/20/2007 at 9:07 p.m.
I had a rough day mentally if you read Jims blog you will all understand. This is the worst day we've had in a while. physically I'm doing okay
we still need all your prayers |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 10/21/2007 at 9:48 p.m.
Subject: Sunday, Oct. 21,2007
Brad went to the hospital very early this morning to make sure Jim had his meds and that he could feed him breakfast.
I had to call the home nurse today, my wound vac had a leak last night,Brad had to make an emergency repair, but we still needed it checked out the nurse said is was ok now and that it could wait for a change on monday as scheduled.
Brad came back and got me late in the afternoon to go to see Jim, I don't think Jim even knew me today, he was very aggresive and confused today, very unlike him, we never seen this before.Hopefully this is due to the meds or his transfer.
I am very tired goodnight |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/22/2007 at 5:12 p.m.
Subject: Oct 22,2007
My nurse came this morning around 10:30 to change my dressing . It was bearable, had a new nurse so its different each time they come. I understand that I have one nurse on Mondays and one on Weds and Fri. That shouldn't be to bad. The one today said I would probably have this vac for three weeks couldn't say for sure.
I went to the hospital about 2pm to see Jim. Very up setting day.
Christine is back today and Brad will go home sometime tomorrow.
Pray we pull through this. God is really testing us. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/23/2007 at 6:18 p.m.
Subject: oct 23
| Nothing much going on for me today followed Jim to get his tests which the hospital said a family member needed to go with him . Which I don't know why, they only needed the signature that says if insurance doesn't pay, l will. I'm really very tired of paper work, Every one is afraid they won't get paid and all we want is for Jim to be taken care of at this point. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/24/2007 at 7:23 p.m.
Subject: oct 24,2007
I got a different nurse this morning to change my dressing. She says I will have my regular nurse on Friday, they have all been very nice but I'd like just one,
she said it looked pretty good so maybe mine will go easier.
Amy is with me for a couple of days then Christine will be back. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/25/2007 at 7:07 p.m.
Subject: Oct 25,07
Nothing going on different for me. went to the hospital for lunch and back again for dinner,
Thanks to everyone who call , write and pray for us |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/26/2007 at 7:54 p.m.
Subject: Oct 26,2007
I thought the day started good the home nurse came a 8am so I could plan the rest of my day. Wrong, the equipment wasn't working correctly so they had to call the co to send more materials. that was
12:30 when they both came back the nurse and the company rep. They were finished around 1:30.
The drs office called I am scheduled for surgery on Monday afternoon sounds like he will try to close the wound and possibly do the skin graft.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 10/27/2007 at 4:22 p.m.
Subject: Saturday
Got a call at 6:15 this morning ( it scared me of course) It was Jim he thought if he had some regular food he would feel better, He wanted an egg mcmuffin, I told him it wasn't even 7 yet could he wait till 9 but he didn't think so. the good daughter that he has got up and took him one, spoiled.
My sisters and Mom came down we got groceries and had lunch then went to the hospital . It takes a little running off of Christine,
all in all it was a good day |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/28/2007 at 6:05 p.m.
Subject: sunday
Was happy to spend the afternoon
at the hospital ,Jim was much better, Its still hard when he wants things because I can't move around his bed very well. Of course I'm short with him sometimes. I don't really mean to be but its just like home so he should understand that.
It will be a few days till I post again , my surgery is tomorrow and I have to stay 3 days in the hospital,
One of the kids will keep you up to date |
Report created by: Christine
Date: 10/29/2007 at 11:39 p.m.
Subject: oct. 29
Karen had her surgery. They did a skin graft on the end of her leg. Everything went well. She's most sore at the site where they took the graft on her left thigh. She has a wound vac again. We will take her home vac up tomorrow and she will get to come "home" again.
The worst part is worrying about Dad.
Keep up the prayers!!! |
Report created by: karen
Date: 10/31/2007 at 8:17 p.m.
Subject: wed
| I was released from the hospital about noon, I was ready its hard to be in the hospital when your not ill. They hooked me up to my home vac so I could leave, I think I meet with Dr Binski on Sat and he will look at the graft and I should know my next step. |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 11/01/2007 at 6:20 p.m.
Subject: Nov 1
Its been a busy day trying to get paper work and schedules for the month figure out. Brad and Angie left a little bit ago and Amy will be here about 8 .
I signed up with my home health nurse again, I don't see the Dr until Sat I meet him at the hospital to take the bandage off and see how the graft looks lets keep praying that everything is taking as suppose to. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/03/2007 at 3:05 p.m.
Subject: Nov 3
I meant with Dr Binski this morning at the hospital. He was doing surgery so he meant with me between patients. He took my dressing off and the wound vac. I was very glad to get rid of that. It was very hard to walk, my balance wasn't so good.
The Dr said it looked very good I just have to change the dressing every day, And trim around the spot they removed from my upper thigh for the graft piece.
Then we went up to visit with Jim for a while,
We came home to get something to eat and do a few things its hard to keep on top of things,
Were heading back to the hospital to help Jim with his supper .
Thanks, we appreciate what everyone is doing all the thoughts and prayers are important |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/04/2007 at 5:18 p.m.
Subject: nov 4
I forgot to set my clock back last night, So I missed out on another hour of sleep. I could have used it. We realize it just before we left for the hospital.
It was a long day again, We didn't take a break after lunch.,
I'm doing okay back to changing my own dressing each day. In about three weeks I see the Dr again |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 11/05/2007 at 4:54 p.m.
Subject: Nov 5
Not a very good day, they are still talking to me about moving Jim and I don't want him Moved, It so hard to talk to everyone and understand their thing nor do they understand me,
Amy went home about 4 and jimmy will be hear about 7. Jim had to fend for himself for supper but I know the Nurse will help him.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 11/07/2007 at 6:25 p.m.
Subject: Nov 7
Made two trips to the hospital so makes a long day Jim Jr left about 6 and Pam and Mom came this evening.
Still worrying about moving Jim. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/09/2007 at 6:45 p.m.
Subject: nov 9
another long day. Jim did fine in surgery. Pam and Mom went home this afternoon and Christine came back.
Hoping to rest some over the weekend.
I'm doing fine still trying to make the decision where to move Jim and make sure its the right move, |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 11/10/2007 at 5:59 p.m.
Subject: Nov 10
here it is the weekend again time goes so fast, I'm getting as board and tired as Jim is. I think we need to get closer just to keep our sanity.
I need to find a Dr in fort wayne to take his case.
I 'm praying for guidance that I am doing everything correct |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/12/2007 at 6:17 p.m.
Subject: Nov 12
Had my appointment with Dr Binsky today they took the stitches out and said it was healing okay.
I go back on the 20th to make sure the bone is healing like it should be. The rod has to be strong enough to hold my leg so I can learn to walk with a prosthetic. Hoping to do that process at home.
thanks everyone for caring |
Report created by: k
Date: 11/13/2007 at 7:01 p.m.
Subject: Nov 13
Not alot different for me Christine left this afternoon and Brad is here for a couple of days.
Christine won't be able to be back for several weeks . |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/14/2007 at 5:03 p.m.
Subject: Nov 14
| With Jim's set back I'm still in hopes of being closer to home before the holidays. |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 11/15/2007 at 4:13 p.m.
Subject: Nov 16
I;m home early today. Brad headed home and its now Amy's turn.
We have watched construction work at Miami Valley Hospital going on while we have been here They actually opened a new restaurant today.
And a new parking garage is going up at the Childrens Hospital we drive by every day. It will probably be completed before we leave.
I guess there are also alot of changes going on at home.
Hello to everyone and thanks for the thoughts and prayers.
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Report created by: Karen
Date: 11/16/2007 at 6:42 p.m.
Subject: Nov 16
I'm not sure where the day has gone, it shouldn't be so late. Jim was busy all day we spent most of the time in the hall way.
I'm doing okay I think the cold is making may knee ache, hope it doesn't get bad
thanks to everyone for the thoughts and prayers |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/17/2007 at 6:05 p.m.
Subject: nov 17
This morning Amy picked up some plastic storage tubs so we could start getting organized for our move home, I don't have a lot here but when the hospital says Jim is moving I want to be ready also.
The holidays are coming to fast, I'm not looking forward to it, we always have a nice family day and its not going to happen, I am thankful that we are here but we have such a long road ahead of us. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/18/2007 at 5:40 p.m.
Subject: nov 18
I'm doing fine. trying to get organized so I can leave when Jim does.
And worrying about my Christmas shopping I always start the day after Thanksgiving, We enjoy that mad house, its a sport. I think we are just going to forget it for now our Christmas is taking care of Jim and being thankful that we are both here. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/20/2007 at 7:16 p.m.
Subject: nov 20
| I had my dr appointment this afternoon with Dr Binsky , he said my leg was healing good. time to get ready for my Prosthetic. I still have to come back to him I thought he may release me but he didn't. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/21/2007 at 7:37 p.m.
Subject: Nov 21
Today I went to a Prosthetic group and was fitted for a shrink sock, which I have to wear until I get my leg . They also showed me what type of leg I might be interested in. It was very strange to talk about what will happen. They gave me several names of firms in Fort Wayne. So as soon as Jim is moved I will contact them .
Brad brought me home to spend Thanksgiving here. Christine and Jim jr are going down on Friday , then Brad will take me back . Jim thought maybe a break would be good for me.
I hope it was the right thing to do we' ve never been apart onThanks giving before.
We are Thankful this year for just being here |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/22/2007 at 4:51 p.m.
Subject: nov 22
spent the day with Brad,Angie, Amy and Blake. had a quite afternoon
seemed a little strange for us but everything has been different for several months.
Happy Thanksgiving |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/24/2007 at 7:20 p.m.
I just stayed around Brads today just being lazy it felt pretty good.
had a couple of visitors and that was nice. I'm still thinking Jim will move to Fort Wayne next week
pray this is the right thing |
Report created by: k
Date: 11/27/2007 at 6:46 p.m.
Subject: nov 27
I meant Jim in Fort Wayne when he arrived. He was pretty tired but seemed in good spirits.
I'm going to Dayton Thur to clean out the apartment. it will be real good not to have to go back to it.
Our mailing address should be our Angola address
1254 e Maumee angola, 46703 and Amy will get it to us.
Again Jim just doesnt want to gave visitors until he is stronger |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/28/2007 at 7:53 p.m.
Subject: nov 28
This morning I had an appointment with a prosthetist, he is an amputee himself, for thirty years, also an accident.
He gave me lots to think about.
If I go with this group kent would start me in a couple of week, I won't be walking by Christmas but it would be close.
Brad would like me to talk to another group just to see how I like them before I make a decision
Pray I make the right choice |
Report created by: karen
Date: 11/29/2007 at 5:54 p.m.
Subject: Nov 29
Today Brad and I went to Dayton and cleaned out our apartment. I'm not sure where I got so much stuff . The apartment was furnished with everything but my clothing..Oh well a girl has to have her stuff.
It was a very long day now I have to find a place for it. I'm staying at Brads for awhile I cant get around in my house very well. Its hard for Blake to understand why I'm not coming home.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 11/30/2007 at 5:21 p.m.
Subject: nov 30
Had a nice visit with Jim, it was good to watch him get through his therapy with out complaining. All though they didnt do alot because he had a scan so he was out of his room for sometime and therapy thought he might be tired.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 12/04/2007 at 3:45 p.m.
Subject: dec 4
today I have an appointment with the second prosthetist. I liked him just fine and most of my questions were answered the same. I just have to decided who I felt the most comfortable with. I work with them for the rest of my life.
I was also told I could do rehab here in Angola so that should help a lot.
As soon as I make up my mind they will get started, I may be walking by the first of the year. |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 12/11/2007 at 4:55 p.m.
Subject: Dec 11
Tomorrow I was suppose to have my first appointment for the fitting of my leg. But last night I lost my balance and fell.
I can't tell if its swollen, but is very sore.
so I had to cancel my appointment... That is very disappointing I want to get started. Its so hard not being able to get around as I want. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/13/2007 at 6:56 p.m.
Subject: DEC 13
yesterday I was a little under the weather I think it was a migraine. this morning I felt just a little out of sorts like I do after a migraine,
This afternoon my sister called, to take me to the hospital after she got off of work and of course I said okay.
I really am thankful for my family.
My leg is still a little sore but I hope to get an appointment next week. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/19/2007 at 10:34 a.m.
Subject: dec 19
Last night Paul and the girls from the office asked me to go to dinner with them at Bridgewater in Auburn, I wasn't sure at first but I did go and had a great time. The food was good and I enjoyed getting out.
I'm glad the weather changed I'm going to Fort Wayne today so I'll feel better after seeing Jim I hate note going. |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 12/22/2007 at 5:26 p.m.
Subject: Dec 22
This is going to be a rough holiday. I know Jim is only in Fort Wayne but we have all been together in the past.
I am very thankful that he is as good as he is it could be worse.
We plan on spending time with him each day over the week end hopefully the weather will co operate.
I have been getting out a little more and seeing friends and family it gets easier each time. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/24/2007 at 4:26 p.m.
Subject: Dec 24
I spent all morning at the prosthetist, He fit me for my leg and I walked 100 ft. pretty shaky but I was moving he said I may be able to walk in 2-3 weeks. I have another appointment on Thur.
We stopped at the hospital and Jim was doing good had therapy early in the day and had visitors in the afternoon.
Merry Christmas |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/27/2007 at 3:41 p.m.
Subject: dec 27
Well I didn't get a leg for Christmas but I have it today. What a day I have had we arrived at my prosthetics at 9 o'clock and he had me walk for a time making sure everything fit.
My sister Pam and I left there about 11:30 went to lunch then went to the hospital, and I walked into his room with two legs, I think he was glad to see my progress.
Then we went to therapy with Jim and he is doing very good .
Thank God every day that were are both doing so good. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/29/2007 at 4:36 p.m.
Subject: dec 29
I'm still trying to walk on two legs, It is hard but as soon as I can start my therapy I'll be back to what will now be my normal.,
Thanks you for all of your thoughts and prayers. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/30/2007 at 4:51 p.m.
Subject: dec 30
I went to church for the first time since our accident , It felt good to feel able to attend, It was nice to be welcomed back.
then we spent the afternoon with Jim. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 12/31/2007 at 3:55 p.m.
Subject: dec 31
Spent the last day of the year with Jim. It will seem strange not being together. He always stayed up til late but I was luck to stay up to see the ball drop. this year he said he would probably not be awake til midnight he's almost always asleep by eleven.
I'm still practicing walking on two feel
Happy New Year !!!!!! |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/02/2008 at 5:07 p.m.
Subject: jan 2
I saw the orthopedic Dr here today and he said everything looked like the Dr that saw me in Ohio knew what he was doing. We think that but it is always good to have it confirmed. I start my therapy on Monday the 7th, 2 or 3 times a week for a month then I should be as good as new.
I didn't see Jim today but talked to him on the phone. He seems good.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 01/03/2008 at 5:53 p.m.
Subject: Jan 3
I saw my Prosthetist today he watched me walk and said I was doing good, Maybe a month of therapy and I may be on a cane instead of the walker. I'm excited to walk again. He says I'm like an infant and I'll learn all over.
Then we went to see Jim, he is always glad to hear I'm doing so well with the prosthetic |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/08/2008 at 10:26 a.m.
Subject: jan 7
| Had my consultation with my therapist at Cameron. He gave me exercises to do and pointers on walking my first day is wed and then three times a week . I'm anxious to get started. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/09/2008 at 7:00 p.m.
Subject: jan 9
I went to therapy at Cameron this morning. I have to do a lot of stretching to get the strength to stand and walk without the walker which is my goal.
Everything is looking good and I leave the prosthetic on most of the day.
Each day gets better. It's hard though and some days it seems more than one person should have to handle, then I remember how hard it must be for Jim at least I have my family with me every day and I am very thankful for them. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/11/2008 at 3:06 p.m.
Subject: Jan 11
today's therapy went well, he tried to get me to walk without my walker, only holding on to his arms. Its difficult but it will happen in time.
I just have to get my left leg stronger
Going to see Jim now so hopefully he has had a good day. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/13/2008 at 7:23 p.m.
Subject: jan 13
What a day!!! Today was the first I went to my house. Amy was able to help me up the steps I backed up while she held my walker.
After I got into the kitchen I really couldn't go much farther. I wanted to get to my bedroom but I had to go between the chair and the wall to get to the hall then a sharp turn which my walker hit every corner I think there was. I pray that everything goes well with our plans. I knew I had a small house but I just didn't realize how small until today. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/14/2008 at 6:50 p.m.
Subject: jan 14
| I think therapy went as well as can be expected. I'm trying to stand without the walker and take a step, It really is like an infant learning to walk. I just haven't fallen from it. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/16/2008 at 5:15 p.m.
Subject: jan 16
Had theaphy this morning, Robert said it went good but I feel like I need more work so I'll excerside as much as I can. Then I went to the prothetis and he said everything looks good and to call him if I need him.
then we went to the hospital to visit . |
Report created by: karen
Date: 01/23/2008 at 9:22 p.m.
Subject: jan 23
I feel I have a ways to go in therapy although he says I am doing good. He says its as much mental as physical. I know I can do it I just have to.
I'm glad Jim is back in town it will be easier for all of us. I just want him to get strong enough that our next move will be home. He will have to have more surgeries down the road. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 02/05/2008 at 6:49 p.m.
Subject: Feb 5
Starting off Feb with a change. I started back to work part time , I was a little nervous on Monday but everything went fine and today even a little smoother I'll be right back in the flow of things real soon.
I need to start driving soon and that will be a lot easier, I haven't figures out how to get all of my stuff in my little bug yet but soon.
My therapist fell and broke his hip skiing, so I don't know how that will effect me. Not at all if I try hard .
After work I go visit Jim them I'm ready for bed I need to get my strength built up.
Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers |
Report created by: Karen
Date: 02/16/2008 at 5:35 p.m.
Subject: Feb 16
I'm going to be starting my third week of work I can't believe how fast time is really going.
we have so much ahead of us to plan and take care of it my mind is flying all the time.
Therapy is going good I have different ones helping me but they all think I'm doing good I just want to be walking NOW. They tell me I am very impatient.
I"m still at Brads and wanting to find a rental for us before Jim comes home I thought I had one but when we took the wheel chair for a trial run, we decided Jim would not be able to get through the door by himself. So I'll keep looking.
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Report created by: karen
Date: 02/18/2008 at 7:15 p.m.
Subject: Feb 18
I drove to work today . Its not so hard I just put my seat all the way back . them put my walker in the back seat and pull my seat back in place and I'm ready to go.
As long as its not slippery I'm afraid of falling. If only winter was over. I think we all feel that way. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 02/28/2008 at 6:10 p.m.
Subject: Feb 28
I know I haven't up dated in awhile. It seems as though I'm not doing anything different.
My therapy is still three days a week they say I am improving but I feel like it is going slow, Even tho it has been six months since the accident I have only had my prosthetic for two months.
this is my first full week of work and until I go to the nursing home in the evenings I'm ready for bed til I get home. I enjoy working and seeing all our insureds again.
thanks to everyone for your thoughts and prayers. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 03/02/2008 at 5:40 p.m.
Subject: mar 2
I left Jim watching the race today so he was happy. Its another long week ahead of me. therapy three times a week and two dr appointments. I'm also working part time this week. Part time turns into a lot of hours sometimes. I want to keep up at work.
thanks to everyone, |
Report created by: karen
Date: 03/21/2008 at 5:08 p.m.
Subject: march 21
Its suppose to be spring but it doesn't look like it tonight. Because it was snowing and blowing I came home after work, instead of visiting with Jim. I'm afraid of slipping on the snow. We were together this morning going to Fort Wayne . When we dropped him off he crawled in bed and was ready for a nap its rough on him sometimes when we take him in the van, Brad is very patient with him.
I'm walking with a cane most of the time I need a little more practice and therapy to strengthen the left hip. I'll keep working on it.
I have been working almost a full week, trying to make up for time I will need to spend with Jim when he gets home. We may have to stay with Brad for a while. Its almost impossible to find a handicapped house. And we don't really think we can live alone We're not much help to each other just yet ,
Amy has her hands full taking care of Blake. He will be four in two weeks. I miss being with him , but I' m not as tolerant as I was.
happy Easter to everyone we are taking Jim to my brothers for dinner I hope he can handle all the activity they are about thirty of us. |
Report created by: karen
Date: 03/28/2008 at 7:07 p.m.
Subject: March 28
Its been along couple of days with Jims surgery but we are doing okay we have a nice motel with in two miles of the hospital.
Brad left us about noon so he could get to work and will be back in a few days, My mother came down to stay with me to keep me company.
thanks to every one |
Report created by: karen
Date: 04/01/2008 at 07:10 a.m.
Subject: april 1
another month, we are on our way to the hospital hopefully Jim is doing okay. He shouldn't have much happening today. Just heal now getting ready to head back to Angola.
I'm tired of hotel rooms but I think it might just beginning we have to decide if all of his surgery will be in Dayton.
Lets just pray we make the right decisions |
Report created by: karen
Date: 04/05/2008 at 10:16 a.m.
Subject: april 5
We are back in Angola, I'm trying to catch up on all the bills and the laundry. Everyone knows how things can pile up when we are gone longer than expected.
It was a long ten days but I survived. Mom was alot of help to me and I am so glad she could stay with me. We were both tired by the end of our stay.
Thank you for the thoughts and prayer |
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